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March 25, 2025

Finding Heart Peeps

How to find your HEART peeps

In this week’s Systems Change Newsletter…

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Catalytic Thinking Exercise:
Finding your HEART peeps

That old curse seems to have settled upon us: May you live in interesting times...

In these "interesting times," most of us are experiencing up days and down days. For those of us here at Creating the Future, the up days tend to happen when we’ve rested our weary minds and hearts. And a big part of that is about connecting meaningfully with other people.

It sounds so simple - being human with ourselves and each other. And it is mentioned so often to almost be cliché. But brain science backs that up.

The brain's survival region isn’t just about fight or flight; it’s also about a different kind of survival mechanism… each other. While thinking happens in the frontal lobe, connecting happens without our having to think about it. When we cry during a movie, we aren't thinking, "Oh that's so sad!" We reflexively feel what others are feeling - even though our thinking brain knows it's just a movie. The fact that that connection is a reflex says so much about what we humans need to survive.

If we are to truly revive and gain strength to face the work ahead, taking care of ourselves will therefore not only include a healthy dose of alone time; it will also include time to connect with and help each other. Even for introverts, that connection is our strength. And in our current reality, it is our superpower.

Try this
This week’s Catalytic Thinking exercise is not about your work to fight for social justice. It’s not about your organization or your business. This week’s exercise is about applying the first question of Catalytic Thinking to YOU.

Who else cares about what you care about?

Importantly for your sanity, and to make these connections a true respite vs. one more drudge, find people who care about something that is NOT your day job. Find your HEART peeps.

Not your “work” people. Your JOY people. Your HEART people.

To simultaneously rest your weary brain AND build community, find people who love what you love to do beyond work. Gardening. Photography. Dogs. Reading romance novels.

When we are overworked and exhausted, we tend to isolate. We garden at home. We go hiking with the dog. And the older we get, the more we tend to spend our time alone.

  • In this week’s podcast episode, Marcus Walton emphasizes the fact that we can’t create change “out there in the world” unless we consider our own humanity as interconnected and interdependent creatures.
  • In his seminal book, On Tyranny: Twenty Lessons from the Twentieth Century, historian Timothy Snyder’s 12th lesson is Make eye contact and small talk” -  the power of interacting with the people around us, to deepen relationships, to find what we have in common.
  • And study after study after study after study talks about the power of volunteering to help alleviate depression and anxiety. That act of helping others, being connected to others in ways that matter – that is what revives us AND builds community.

The antidote to the madness we are experiencing in the world is community. If you don’t love large groups, find one or two people to join you in reading that romance novel. Or volunteer at the Humane Society to take care of animals. Help the forest service plant trees – a task that allows you to choose to work with others or on your own. You will be connecting, just in your own way.

We may not think that joining a book club, coaching a kid’s softball team, or helping a neighbor patch their roof is changing the world. Well, not to go all Margaret Mead on us, but those connections are the only thing that ever has changed the world - all of us finding our people, sharing what we care about.

This is not only an exercise for your own health. It is also a huge step in building a movement. Because movement-building is also about finding your people. And that doesn't have to happen over "work." It can happen organically, as you're working side-by-side planting trees or talking about the heroine in that romance novel. It starts with just being human, connecting with others, creating ripples, weaving together the networks of people you know. One person becomes two people becomes ten people becomes 100 people.

As we talk about so often at Creating the Future, together we have everything we need; it is only on our own that we experience scarcity. That’s not just the definition of Collective Enoughness. It is the recipe for your health and the health of our planet.

So go find your HEART people. Your JOY people. And let us know what happens when you do. 

Resources to Further Your Practice

  • LISTEN: What does it take to create transformational social change? Our podcast guests cover that topic from surprising angles. Listen here…
  • LEARN: When you connect with people, are you bringing out the best in them or inadvertently putting them on the defensive? Find out here…
  • READ: Historian Timothy Snyder’s book “On Tyranny: Twenty Lessons from the Twentieth Century” has become the bible for fighting the current state of our world. Find out about it here…

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