Creating the Future eJournal
April 10, 2017

What would it look like in your daily life if you were BEING the future you want to see for our world?

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Are you walking your talk?
In last week’s eJournal, we talked about listening for the values in others.

Which leads to the question: What about YOUR values? 
After all, the only person you can control is yourself. 

This week’s practice will, therefore, first begin to uncover your own values. From there, you will take the most important step of all: aligning your actions with your values.

Try this:
1) First let’s uncover your true values.

Fill in these blanks with your top-of-mind thoughts. If it is helpful to think especially about people you don’t agree with, do so. Otherwise, just answer whatever comes to mind.
  • In order for the world to be a more humane, fair and equitable place to live, people would need to behave more _______________. Their behaviors would be more _____________.
  • The most important things people would base their decisions upon would be _________________.
  • I wish other people would be more _________________.
Even though the questions are about other people, your answers are actually a list of your own values, the things that are important to you. Your thoughts about what other people should do are all rooted in your values.

2) Step 2 is therefore about asking yourself, "Am I walking that talk? Am I doing what I wish others would do? Am I behaving as I wish they would behave?"

If you were walking the talk of the values you listed in Step 1...  
  • What decisions would you be making?
  • What conversations would you be having? With whom?
  • What would you be saying about people with whom you disagree politically?
  • What would your comments and posts on social media be saying?
In The Pollyanna Principles, Hildy noted that “Being the change we want to see means walking the talk of our values.”

In these times of anger, suspicion and division, bringing out the best in ourselves and those around us is more important than ever. It is so easy to jump to judgment about what others “should” do.

By stepping back to first listen to yourself, and to then align your own actions with the things that are important to you, you will be unlocking your own potential to be the kind, humane, equitable world you want to see. That is why Catalytic Listening is at the heart of Catalytic Thinking.


Want to meet other people who are also learning how to apply Catalytic Thinking in their lives? Join us at the Catalytic Thinking in Action community on Facebook - a welcoming place where you can ask questions and learn from people like you who are experimenting with these practices. We look forward to seeing you there!

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The experiment:
To determine how much better the world could be if the questions we ask in our day to day lives are bringing out the best in each other.

If everyone, everywhere, is bringing out the best in every person they encounter – and if the systems that guide our behaviors are built to bring out the best in all of us - how much closer will we all be to a healthy, humane world that works for all of us?
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